Life is busy, as you know. For all I talk about the beauty of living a slow and intentional life, I sure feel like I'm living with my pants around my ankles, swinging haplessly by one arm around an out of control twirl-a-whirl while trying to apply liquid eye-liner. Chaos. Utter chaos, I tell you. The other night, Abbey burst into my bedroom around 11:45. We had settled/tucked-in the kids hours before. Though it took four attempts before the girls seemed ready to stay put for the night. She ... VIEW POST

Parenthood is messy as fuck…and I feel weird about it

How to build compassion: chapter one
Compassion. Noun: a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. A strong desire to alleviate suffering -- compassion is one of the most beautiful of human potentials. It's a skill, a way of living that must be taught, modeled, shaped in a way that will impact the way a person sees the world, every single day. As a parent and an empath, I often think about how to do this in a way that will impact my own ... VIEW POST

Out of the mouths of babes & Oatmeal Cranberry cookies
CW: themes of death, childhood death, anxiety It's no secret I'm a night owl, always have been. There hasn't been a moment in my life when I've felt the natural pull to rest my weary head at a decent hour. My least favorite quote? "Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise." Dumb (okay, not dumb...maybe I'm just jealous?). Anyway, it was late one night a few weeks ago when I was lying in bed, sipping a glass of Pinot, reading Sir Arthur Conan Doyle when the ... VIEW POST

A day in the life: homeschool edition
How did we get here? Let's say ten-ish years ago, you told me I would be homeschooling five human children. Well, I would have spit my Mike's Hard Lemonade straight in your face (it's summertime and we're eating tacos on the porch, by the way. I politely hand you a towel to wipe your face because I'm nice like that.). Rewind to ten-ish (okay maybe 12)...(TWELVE?!?) years ago. I had one human child, was working as an elementary school counselor, and was, quite frankly, miserable. Do you ... VIEW POST

In the Trenches of Motherhood
Leaky Ceilings & All the Feelings "Mom!" "Mommy!" "Ma!" "Moooooom!" "Maamaaaaa!" "Muuuum!" I call it the "call of the wild" and it's a familiar sound around my home. It doesn't matter where I am, what day of the week it is, or what's going on at any given moment, odds are, someone needs me. Don't misunderstand me -- the neediness of my kids is something that is innately precious to me. But for the looooooove it can wear a person down, ya-know-what-I'm-sayin'? As a mom of five (I call ... VIEW POST
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🌙 Yes, I take the *crazy cat lady* label and shred it to pieces, my friends -- it`s a magical kitty palace filled with whimsy, hairballs, and tuna delight over here, mortals. 🌙
✨️ Where do you sit on the cat enthusiast scale?? 👇
✨️ 0. No hairballs for me
✨️ 1. Kitty curious
✨️ 2. 1-2 cat buds
✨️ 3. 3-4 full house kitty friends
✨️ 4. 5-6 grand kitty master
✨️ 5. 7+ kitty circus ringleader extraordinaire (this escalated quickly and I have almost no regrets 😂)
....also, the soundtrack to my life lately comes from @sspu
new album Tenterhooks 🤌 🎵 Long Gone
#cat #catlife #catsofinstagram #aesthetic #teamcatmojo
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🌙 Mornings with Luna as a bleeding heart hippie with a never-ending hope and longing for a better world for all humans 🌙
#peaceandlove #distraction #humanity #witchesofinstagram #catsofinstagram
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✨️ 🥔Hi. I`m Jess. & these are my emotional support potatoes. ✨️🥔
....need more potatoes to deal with all....this *gestures wildly* (...my sock feels weird, health anxiety, social anxiety, general anxiety, trying to raise good humans who embrace their neurodiversity in a neurotypical world, sadness about an abandoned monkey, wanting men to call out other men on their bull shit, the entire government, my curly chin hair, it`s too windy, PMS, bulletin boards, mac and cheese that`s not cheesy enough, bras, and people who litter...)....ya know??
🧀What`s your emotional support snack, mortals? 🧀
#potatoes #snacktime #emotionalsupport #emotionalhealth #
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✨️✨️ How to keep cats happy, not slappy: Part 1 ✨️✨️
🌙 I`ve learned a thing or two after years of adopting cats and want to share tips & tricks for keeping cats happy, not slappy 🫠✨️
🌙 A few tips when adjusting to a new kitten: 🌙
✨️ Set them up with toys, a bed, litter box, food, and water in a small area of your home where they can initially adjust to you, your people, and your home. We started Luna in our bathroom and have expanded her into our bedroom.
✨️ Use toys and blankets to help share scents to other cats and pets in your home in shared spaces. Swap toys from one cat to another so that scent become familiar in a non-threatening way.
✨️ Slowly introducing your new cat to your home will help them become confident and will help you avoid undesirable, stress-induced behaviors.
🌙 Stay tuned for Part 2 when we begin to safely introduce Luna to our moody manor Pride 🌙
✨️✨️ Disclaimer - I am not a vet or animal behaviorist - only sharing from my lived experience. I highly recommend watching and following @thecatdaddy for expert information about cat behavior ✨️✨️
#cats #teamcatmojo #catstagram #kittenlove #catsofinstagram
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✨️ In this space...I want you to feel: ✨️
🌙 Safe...this tiny slice of the world is one where you are allowed to let your guard down without fear of being *too much* or *not enough*
🌙 Worthy....of love, acceptance, respect, joy....simply by existing. No more. No less.
🌙 Capable...of making tough choice, being present, speaking truth, growing changing.
🌙 Accepted...Just as you are, right now.
🌙 Permitted...to embrace your wild, weird, whimsical self because that bitch is AWESOME 👌
✨️ I hope you feel all of this here, mortals ✨️
#affirmations #foryou #intention #witchaesthetic #positivevibes
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🌙 Creating the angry apple trees from Wizard of Oz 🌙
✨️ They are sassy, mortals....watch out ✨️
🌙 #wizardofoz #oz #setdesign #props #artistsofinstagram 🌙
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🌙You are permitted to be both whimsical and outraged.🌙
✨️ It`s okay to sit with endless hope and vast desperation.✨️
🌙 Do not abandon your magic to allow the crushing weight of all the corrupt monstrosities that exist in this world to suffocate your spirit.🌙
✨️You are enough to fan the flames of justice, integrity, truth.✨️
🌙To both demand accountability and glitter bomb the fuck out of the world.🌙
✨️These things coexist.✨️
🌙 Make magic, mortals....and rage on. 🌙
#justice #whimsy #rage #accountability #magic
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🌙 ...wishing you warmth, steadiness, peace, healing, courage, rest, wisdom, love -- whatever your soul hungers for at the moment, mortals -- may it find you... 🌙
#home #healing #homeinspiration #inspired #witchaesthetic
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