Life is busy, as you know. For all I talk about the beauty of living a slow and intentional life, I sure feel like I'm living with my pants around my ankles, swinging haplessly by one arm around an out of control twirl-a-whirl while trying to apply liquid eye-liner. Chaos. Utter chaos, I tell you. The other night, Abbey burst into my bedroom around 11:45. We had settled/tucked-in the kids hours before. Though it took four attempts before the girls seemed ready to stay put for the night. She ... VIEW POST

Parenthood is messy as fuck…and I feel weird about it

How to build compassion: chapter one
Compassion. Noun: a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. A strong desire to alleviate suffering -- compassion is one of the most beautiful of human potentials. It's a skill, a way of living that must be taught, modeled, shaped in a way that will impact the way a person sees the world, every single day. As a parent and an empath, I often think about how to do this in a way that will impact my own ... VIEW POST

Out of the mouths of babes & Oatmeal Cranberry cookies
CW: themes of death, childhood death, anxiety It's no secret I'm a night owl, always have been. There hasn't been a moment in my life when I've felt the natural pull to rest my weary head at a decent hour. My least favorite quote? "Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise." Dumb (okay, not dumb...maybe I'm just jealous?). Anyway, it was late one night a few weeks ago when I was lying in bed, sipping a glass of Pinot, reading Sir Arthur Conan Doyle when the ... VIEW POST

A day in the life: homeschool edition
How did we get here? Let's say ten-ish years ago, you told me I would be homeschooling five human children. Well, I would have spit my Mike's Hard Lemonade straight in your face (it's summertime and we're eating tacos on the porch, by the way. I politely hand you a towel to wipe your face because I'm nice like that.). Rewind to ten-ish (okay maybe 12)...(TWELVE?!?) years ago. I had one human child, was working as an elementary school counselor, and was, quite frankly, miserable. Do you ... VIEW POST

In the Trenches of Motherhood
Leaky Ceilings & All the Feelings "Mom!" "Mommy!" "Ma!" "Moooooom!" "Maamaaaaa!" "Muuuum!" I call it the "call of the wild" and it's a familiar sound around my home. It doesn't matter where I am, what day of the week it is, or what's going on at any given moment, odds are, someone needs me. Don't misunderstand me -- the neediness of my kids is something that is innately precious to me. But for the looooooove it can wear a person down, ya-know-what-I'm-sayin'? As a mom of five (I call ... VIEW POST
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✨️✨️ This & unapologetic whimsy? Yes. Yes, indeed. How will you add a little whimsy to your life this week, mortals?? ...I am working on an Alice in Wonderland themed fairy garden, myself. 🤌
#whimsy #aliceinwonderland #witchyvibes #magical #homeinspiration
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✨️✨️🌱 Garden inspiration for all my green-thumb hopefuls out there, mortals!! 🌱✨️✨️
....are you not impressed? Are you not entertained?! ....the teenager is not amused. 🤷♀️ #bruh
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✨️🌙 What choices will you make to be and live better? How will you use your beautiful soul to create whimsy and magic in your life? What would you add to this ever-growing list, mortals? 🌙✨️
....I am adding glitter bombs to my list....
#bebetter #liveauthentic #whimsy #whimsical #humanity
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✨️🌙 Time for a reset, mortals. Lose yourself for just a minute...breathe...plot how you`re going to be a whimsical menace... 🌙✨️
🌙✨️ How will you work a little whimsy into your week? ✨️🌙
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✨️💀 A little behind-the-scenes look at the creation of a couple Soulless Statues that will be making their screen debut (& capturing a soul or two) soon 💀✨️
....they`re kind of....adorable? Is that...is that just a mother`s love??? 🤣🤘 thanks to @ajrbrothers for always providing the best soundtrack for skipping to the best part 👌
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✨️✨️ Slipcover refresh from @comfortworks ✨️✨️
🌙 Anyone else use slipcovers to reign in on the domestic chaos that is having 5 kids, 7 cats, 3 dogs, and a Derek?? 🤣 I`ve been supporting Comfort Works for years as their covers are the only I`ve come across thay actually stand up to our goblin lifestyle 🥂 This is the signature velvet in caramel -- pet/claw friendly - and our sensory sensitive kiddos love the texture/feel of the fabric. 🌙
#home #slipcover #comfortworks #vintagestyle #moodygrams
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Why I feel closer than ever to Jesus as a practicing Pagan and former Christian.
Spirituality, religion, faith — all incredibly relevant and powerful to the human experience. Mostly, I believe, because humans are fragile and beautifully imaginative. We want to know why, how, and where we came from…the reason for our existence. We are a naturally curious and innovative species and generally uncomfortable with the unknown. So, we create stories. Stories that provide us with the answers we seek and the push to live without that nagging fear of the unknown…tugging at our hearts and souls.
At its best, faith inspires and lifts us to be better — to love and give more. At its worst, it is weaponized to control, dominate, and conquer.
Growing up in the church ultimately showed me that much of what folks consider “good Christianity” is performative. Gathered together in a vaulted sanctuary, light pouring through stained glass windows — we sing praises, arms raised. We listen to the message of another human, trying to make sense of the world. We feel better by doing this…somehow emboldened that we are doing life right — that when we inevitably die, we will achieve spiritual immortality. Meanwhile, children go hungry, the homeless are reviled, the poor suffer, the immigrant is attacked, trans folks are vilified, bombs are dropped, the Earth is destroyed -- all while we sing Glory to God, drop $20 in a plate, and sip coffee in a wooden pew.
And we are pushed to share the good news — desperate for the world to know that Jesus loves you!! He died for you! He was sacrificed so that the world would know the truth.
The truth? The truth is that Jesus was arrested, tortured, and crucified because he was a threat to the establishment — to religious leaders and the government who feared his message would turn the people against them and their lust for power. Jesus opened minds that were shuttered, shattered the status quo, boldly broke religious rules, and challenged religious authorities that were more concerned with control & law than justice and care for the oppressed.
Justice and care for the oppressed. Radical, much?
*rest is in comments because I am too wordy 🤣*
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✨️ A mellow moody moment for you, mortals ✨️
🌙 ...to remind you to reset, inhale-exhale, notice......even (& especially when) life is breathing down your neck like a fire spewing dragon living with IBS that ate two chicken chalupas supreme combos smothered in 27 packets of @tacobell Diablo sauce. 🌙
✨️ look out for each other, mortals ✨️
#tacobell #lifelessons #naturelovers #inspiration #homeinspiration
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